How are you doing? I am glad to be here again to share with you
new ideas to reach your success. About two days ago I listened to an
audio-program called “Personal Power II”, it is an about 30 days speech program
delivered by Antony Robins. This is the second episode of his previous program
“Personal Program”. He made this program after spending 10 years researching,
learning, and interviewing hundreds of people who make a different in their
life, or in other word, they are leaders and experts who have reached higher
standard of achievement above most of people in their field.
Antony Robins himself is a really true example of a person who
changes his life. And the most important thing that we have to do to make our
life better, is to make simple step on daily basis, and to start doing positive
things in our daily life. You have to focus on things that you want to improve,
and start doing something on daily basis to make a little improvement every
day, and for long period of time, if you keep doing that simple step every day,
your life will change dramatically. So the key is to drive your focus. Focus is
power, it is like a samurai that you can use to cut anything you want, when you
focus your mind and potential, you can really cut almost every difficulty that
you face. So the most successful people in the world, are people who really
focus on their field and do the discipline to make constant improvement in the
field of their choice.
All of us know Michael Jackson. Do you know what made him a
super star, and becoming the king of pop? We know pretty sure, it is because of
his fantastic skill of singing and dancing. But as we know, he was not born
knowing how to dance, he grew up loving to dance, and he kept improving his
dancing skill for really long period of time. His style of dancing had improved
significantly which made all people in the world feeling amazed and excited to
watch him dancing. That is not an accident, nor a trick, that is the miracle of
continuing and never ending improvement.
Now, let’s talk about what drives Antony Robins from being poor
to be the most wanted self-help guru, and living a life higher beyond his own
wildest imagination. Here are two things that drove him: inspiration, and
desperation.
Desperation can benefit you in many ways, just like Tony, when
he was a child he saw his father working so hard, but he was always broke and
struggling financially. To provide food to his children is something difficult
for his father, but his father was never give up, and he kept working hard to ensure
that his children can eat and live properly. The most painful moment for Tony
is when his father cannot buy food for his family, and finally some people from
charity program come to their home, and give away some food for the family. His
father looked embarrassed but he took the food, because he and his family
needed it.
Tony felt terrible to see his father situation. He then started
thinking to make his own financial situation in the future better than the
financial situation of his father. He didn’t want to be trapped in the circle
of financial struggle and poverty. He started searching, what makes the
different in the life of people in the world, what makes a person more
successful the others. What really drives people to do what they do? he read self-development
books, he listened to audio-tapes, he attended seminars, he asked many people,
and he began to understand, there is a pattern of all successful people that he
can emulate and use, to make his life better.
Repetition is the mother of skills, the more he absorbed the
information of how to be successful and rich, the better he is in his
presentation and teaching about success. He then began to make a lot of money
by teaching people how to be successful and how to change their life. By the
time he was 19 years old, he has made 10.000 dollars a month. It was a lot of
money for him at the time. He was young, and having a lot of money. This
situation drove him to the dark age of his life. He spent so many time in his
house doing nothing, he didn’t drink too much alcohol, or using drugs, he was
just eating and eating, and eating, to the level that he made his body so fat.
Then the inspiration came. A friend of him came to his home to
see him. And he was amazed with Tony’s situation. His friend then say, “this is
not you Tony, you worth more than this, you have everything you need to make
your life better than this. You know all things about success, you don’t have
to be like this, you should use your knowledge to change your life, not just
knowing it and let your life destructed by your own bad habit!” Tony began to
realized, that his life didn’t work well at that time. He then started to
think, how to use all of the information he knows, to change his own life.
Because actually, knowledge is not power, knowledge is potential power, it will
only be power when it is used and directed wisely.
Since then, Tony decided to act on daily basis to improve the
quality of his life, rather than only reading and searching the knowledge. He
doesn’t only understand the success principle, but he focuses his effort to
apply those principles in his real life. And his life drastically changed.
So what changes your life is not your knowledge, but your
actions based on the true principles and philosophy. You may memorize all
success principles in the world, but if you do not do anything, your life will
never change. You have to invest wisdom in activities. Activities will start to
bring miracles in your life. By simply doing activities that is needed to do to
reach your goals on the daily basis, and stop thinking and staring, but instead
focusing to the activities, you will start to raise your personal power,
actions based on the right knowledge are the power, not the knowledge it
selves. Your action to change that is the real definition of personal power.
To help you to reach your own success, I have learned a formula
that is called “The Ultimate Success Formula”. This is the technology that will
raise your personal power, and it will help you to start building your own
success in life, no matter your situation today, or how high your dream maybe.
Step One - You have to know your
outcome
You have to be clear about the
outcome you want. As you know, that clarity is power. The more you are clear
about the outcome, the more you will have motivation to get it. As Jim Rohn
said, goals are promises, and to bring the promise, you have to pay the price.
The price is easy if the promise is clear. Do not let your-self living without
knowing what outcome do you want.
If you ask people, they usually don’t know what they have to do
to make their life better, because they do not know what outcome they want. So
the first thing to make your life better, to bring success to your life, you
have to decide, what outcome do you want to produce? And having list of
outcomes are not the end of the story, you have to make it simple and clear
enough, so you can grab it easily.
Step Two – You have to take
actions and move toward your outcomes
After knowing, what outcome do you
want, you have to take action. Do whatever you can to move forward toward your
goals. Jim Rohn also said, “Do what you can”. Do not neglect any single action
that you can do every-day to make a progress, if you can read, read. If you can
walk, walk, if you can find people who can help you, find people who can help
you. Do everything that you can, when you can do it.
Make a decision that you will never live below your standard
anymore. Start to force yourself to make constant progress on the daily basis.
Face your fear, every one of us have fear, and so what? Fear will not kill you,
if you find things that fear you, do not run, it is not the solution. You can
face it if you want. Things that you fear, won’t kill you, you just have to
enjoy the fear, and keep moving forward.
Step Three – Be flexible in your
strategies
When you do things to make your
life better, you may find difficulties, or you do not see the progress you
want. Maybe you have to change your strategy. If one strategy doesn’t work, try
another one, if it doesn’t work again, try another one. Flexibility is also
power. Keep trying and keep changing until you succeed. Grab the power of
flexibility!
Step Four – Use the method of role
modeling when you take actions
You can accelerate your potential by simply using the experience
of experts who have done what you are going to do. You may learn from their
mistakes, as well as their successes. This will empower your mind, and it will
make your actions easier, because you have been told about things you have to
do, and things you have to avoid.
When Tony was fat, he found people who have successfully lost
fat, he then asked them, how they did it. And finally he knew what to do, he do
what they have done, and he lost his fat permanently. When Tony wants to get
married, he asked a person who married a lovely wife, he asked him how to find
such women, and to marry her, he told him, and finally he does what that person
does, and finally Tony got married with a women of his dream. Tony always seek
role model to help him doing things that can make him reaching his goals.
To change your-life, the first thing to do is to change
your-self. If you don’t get the result you want, you can learn from your
experience, and start new actions. Don’t feel fear anymore. Success is simple!
Write down things that you want to do since long period of time, but you always
procrastinate them. Stop to put it off, do it right now, no way to fail!
I took the information in this post from Antony Robbins
Get more information about this subject in Tony Robbin's book, click the image down here
Get more information about this subject in Tony Robbin's book, click the image down here
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